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World English Bible Updated · public domain. The passages below are source text, not AI quotations.
John 11:32-36 Read passage
32Therefore when Mary came to where Jesus was and saw him, she fell down at his feet, saying to him, “Lord, if you would have been here, my brother wouldn’t have died.”
33When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews weeping who came with her, he groaned in the spirit and was troubled,
34and said, “Where have you laid him?” They told him, “Lord, come and see.”
35Jesus wept.
36The Jews therefore said, “See how much affection he had for him!”
John 11:38-44 Read passage
38Jesus therefore, again groaning in himself, came to the tomb. Now it was a cave, and a stone lay against it.
39Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of him who was dead, said to him, “Lord, by this time there is a stench, for he has been dead four days.”
40Jesus said to her, “Didn’t I tell you that if you believed, you would see God’s glory?”
41So they took away the stone from the place where the dead man was lying. Jesus lifted up his eyes and said, “Father, I thank you that you listened to me.
42I know that you always listen to me, but because of the multitude standing around I said this, that they may believe that you sent me.”
43When he had said this, he cried with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!”
44He who was dead came out, bound hand and foot with wrappings, and his face was wrapped around with a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Free him, and let him go.”
Romans 12:15 Read passage
15Rejoice with those who rejoice. Weep with those who weep.
Read this in context.
Mary and Martha have both said their brother would not have died if Jesus had been present. Jesus’ conversation with Martha in John 11:17-27 precedes this scene. Read the whole chapter to see how belief, grief, and questions coexist.
What we can observe.
John 11:33 names Mary’s tears and the tears of the people with her. Jesus weeps in verse 35, and those present respond by speaking of his love in verse 36. Verse 38 again describes him as deeply moved.
A reading to consider.
Compassion is a reasonable reading of the tears. The narrative does not provide one exhaustive explanation of Jesus’ emotion, so a confident claim about its sole cause goes beyond what is stated.
Where Christians differ.
One emphasis is Jesus sharing the mourners’ grief and expressing love (John 11:33-36). Another also sees indignation at death and its effects in the language of being deeply moved (John 11:33, 38). These readings can overlap rather than exclude each other.
Read it for yourself.
What does the pause with the mourners help you notice before the scene at the tomb?
A question of your own?
Take what you have read into a guided study. Begin with the passages, explore their context, and keep room for your own reflection.